Are You A Loser and How To Become a Winner
Do you know if you are a loser?
Just spend a minute and think about what you have accomplished so far. Do you work very hard and nothing seems to work? Even though you failed at everything but you don’t think you are a loser. I have a few test questions which will identify if you are a loser or not.
Question 1 – Are you making enough money to have a normal life?
Question 2 – Do you feel frustration when you cannot do what you wanted to do and you think the whole world is against you?
Question 3 – Do you fail at everything that you wanted to achieve?
Question 4 – You don’t like working hard?
Question 5 – You don’t like being in a group and you feel uneasy among other people?
If you answered Yes to all the questions above then you are definitely a loser.
If you are not so convinced, let me give you the personality of a loser.
A loser is someone who fail in everything, the thing could be their job, relationship or their goal in life. Most losers don’t have a goal and they don’t know what to do with their life. They just live day to day and try to do things that they enjoy. The second characteristic of a lose is they don’t like hard work. Working is a chore and they don’t enjoy working. So when faced with huge tasks or work that is a bit difficult, they will tend to procrastinate.
They are not very good at relationship for they don’t want to put work into getting a better relationship with other people. They want others to love them, but they love themselves more than anything. Helping other people is the last thing on their mind. Because of this personality, they tends to be anti-social. They might of couple of friends, but that is all and more than enough for them to handle.
The main reason they become a loser is because they don’t like to work, but without hard work one will never be successful. They could try lots of things but always failed because it is just not in their character to try hard. Their reasons for their own failure are never themselves, they could give you a million reasons why it doesn’t work. Due to the fact that they never see themselves are the problem and they never change. That is why they think the world is against them, someone or something is stopping them to be successful.
So, do you think you are a loser?
Do you want to become a winner?
If you want to become a winner, the first thing that you need to do is to admit that you are a loser. Without this admission, you can never become a winner. The reason is simple – if you have no problem, then there is no problem to solved and you don’t have to change. Admit to yourself that you are a loser and say “I am a loser, but from now on I want to become a winner.”
You now need to work on your personality. You have to change the loser mentality and personality to a winner’s mentality and personality.
Here are what you need to do.
- Prepare to work hard – don’t be afraid of huge task or jobs. Breakdown the task into small job and do one thing at a time. Don’t worry about how long it will take and don’t worry about the result. Tell yourself that you are doing it for fun. When you see work becomes play, then it will become a lot easier. Winners use this technique all the time. Hard work will give you result, always.
- Prepare to change – there are many things that you need to change. Ask yourself why you fail at something, if it is not hard work then it could be you are using the wrong way. So, try changing the way you do things. For example, some girl want to find a good husband, but they always go to the pub and therefore they always find the wrong guy. Guys who are always in the pub are losers, just like herself. Therefore, she need to change location. The same action every time will produce the same result.
- Change your personality – be a people person. Try to talk to people you like to be friends with. It could be very hard in the beginning because you might not like people. You can start by joining a club and make more friends. Friends are valuable asset to us. They could help you though tough times and they will share with you the good times.
- Help others – when you try helping others, you world will become bigger. You will learn things that you never know before. You will become a better person, other people will see you differently. Most people will return your favour.
If you take one step at a time and slowly you will be a better person. You will no longer be a loser anymore. Your world will become more exciting. Hard work will become enjoyable.
I wish you good luck. Could you leave me a comment below and tell me what you think?
Have a nice day.